It's interesting how it's always the men with the "LordMasterDivineDomlyGod" names who make declarations of how sadism/masochism works for everyone*, and when you question what they've said they decide you're the one being stubborn and ignorant?

Like, my guy.. my little guy, it's ok that other people experience things in different ways to you. It's really ok.

#kink #bdsm #Ds #Dominant #submissive #fetlife

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* brought to you by the ever pervasive bullshit idea that sadists are naturally dominant and masochists are naturally submissive, because sadism is active and dynamic, but masochism is passive and receptive.

Him:
I'm in security. I'm a consultant.

Me:
OK, well I don't play with anyone who is a cop or works cop-adjacent, like in security companies.

Him:
Umm well actually it's finance security. I'm not a security guard

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1. You said security, my guy.
2. That's not really any better.
3. Still not interested.

I run a local kink group on Facebook, and in November called someone in about being a chaser.. they decided to leave instead of engaging with the conversation about how chasing and the fetishisation of trans bodies is actually transphobia. After they left I attached a ban to their account so they couldn't rejoin and start shit because I had a feeling...

They've just tracked me down on Fetlife - 5 months later - and started drama in multiple groups there about it ("you banned me for no reason!"), posting in groups I'm in and commenting on threads I've posted in.

...but I made a mistake for banning them?

If these guys displayed such obnoxious behaviour in a civilized #egalitarian #African #huntergatherer society, they would be taken down mercilessly with #laughter and merriment -- almost always by older #women.

If they continued to throw their weight about with obnoxious #dominant #male behaviour, they would be taken OUT. Certainly in the Kalahari that could be done by a child with a poisoned arrow. Most likely by a bunch of hunters doing it together.

But if these guys had grown up in such a society, it's extremely unlikely they'd behave like such assholes. For tens and hundreds of thousands of years, women simply selected against obnoxious male dominance.

It is only a recent historic aberration in the life of our species, and most normal human beings know it.

Hi! I am a #demisexual passive #switch with a big passion for men with a #servicekink, #dominant or #submissive, and a little passion for other genders.
My languages are German and English.

Urteil: Verkäuferin muss "etwas dominantes" Pferd zurücknehmen

Das Oberlandesgericht Braunschweig sieht in dem Verkauf eine arglistige Täuschung. Das Pferd zeige ein aggressives Verhalten.

https://www.ndr.de/nachrichten/niedersachsen/braunschweig_harz_goettingen/Urteil-Verkaeuferin-muss-etwas-dominantes-Pferd-zuruecknehmen-Braunschweig,aktuellbraunschweig14976.html

I don't want to fuck you, I want you to crawl around on the floor making barnyard noises and kiss My boots after I kick you in the cock n balls.

I deserve to be worshipped and spoiled by men who have to ask permission to even be in My presence

it's very simple